The last post about clingy intimacy focused on the problem of falling in love with someone with narcissistic tendencies. Despite considerable charm and passion, a narcissist may be more in love with love, than being in love with YOU. When the relationship gets old, they may criticize and think about moving on. You Read more…
The mind is tricky and sometimes it can backfire on you. When you have to deal with a difficult person, a difficult decision or you’re having a tough time parenting, it’s essential to think clearly. And who always does, right? In this series, we’ve been discussing the problem of divorcing Read more…
Let’s continue our discussion about Narcissism with more dialogue. As many of you know, a straightforward essay format is useful, but lacks the nuance that a give and take can bring. Whether you call it the Socratic Method, a healthy debate or just good pedagogy, dialogue illuminates in ways that Read more…
I bet you’ve met more than a few narcissists along the way. This is the first of an ongoing series on narcissism, in which we will discuss narcissism in its many forms, most especially in the midst of a malignant divorce. While the upcoming DSM V will no longer recognize Read more…
My now ex went nuts when i left. I got a TRO, custody transfers were court ordered to take place at a police station. and yet, after my ex attacked me, screaming and yelling like a madman, in front of our children, the judge looked me right in the eye Read more…