Hate is Poison

Can you forgive? It is not easy. Anyway, you may not want to. It’s simpler to hate. Human beings often resist forgiving. Maybe it’s an evolutionary function, like protecting yourself against your enemies. After all, in ancient times, you rarely got a second...

Clinginess At Its Worst: Why Nice People Cling to Bad Boys (or Girls)

You don’t consider yourself clingy, but you find yourself obsessing too much about the relationship. You ask yourself: “Why am I doing this?” You married a really solid guy and now a few years later, he’s always complaining and it feels tiresome. You ask...